In today's marriages many councils to the arbitration councils apply to women's complaints to their husbands. They often complain that men have diminished their love and affection.
In a particular article, I commented on the complaint of a woman who said, "Although it sounds like a dream, the fact is that my marriage is in trouble. My husband cares about me and does not have any arguments or strife. But our relationship has been different and you seem to be far away. We've been like two people giving us a room and not the love of husband and wife.
Although this is unfathomable and unpleasant, it is very common in today's marriages. If you as a wife feel that your husband's love begins to recover, first make an examination to prove that it's true and recognize the cause. If you are a new couple, your marriage may be in danger of going to a husband who, some years ago, was interested in being satisfied with everything he did, has suddenly changed. He will even miss you for a little thing like salty in the sauce. In the morning she could not recall she came out these days she would not give you a kiss to kiss and say no more "dear lover!
Such events are shocking, but it may also not be as strange as one can imagine. The duty of marriage is not limited to communication, prostitution, and emphasis on embracing, but also to ensure access to the essential needs of life that are food, clothing, and shelter. Thus, even the most loving husband to his wife may seem to have diminished romantic interest in the need for such needs. He deserves to be forgiven if there are times when he will find his mind swayed by his work.
However, the act of isolating his wife is rarely happening and should not be the course of their marriage. The husband should not spend most of his time in his office. Nor does she get out of work to be involved in activities that do not involve her. When he or she is home, his wife should avoid the habit of being silent or avoiding being alone. These actions can cause the anxiety of the act of marriage to be too low.
Even in this case a woman should still ask herself whether her husband is doing a purpose or is due to the developmental intentions. Because a man has hormone that sometimes causes him to be enthusiastic and pressure to want a better life for the family. In particular, when they get children they desire to be a good father for their children. Pressure is so severe that even the imagination of prostitutes and fears for their wives is very fragile.
The most controversial situation for a man occurs when he is in the middle age. During this period he often wonders in himself whether there has been any progress or achievement he has experienced in his life. In this period even the most loving husband to his wife may be worried about anxiety, fears and doubts.
The wife should recognize that the counsel of the husband's affair to decrease will not be resolved by parents, relatives, friends or marriage disputes. Studies have shown that 25-35 percent of women seeing symptoms of depression from their husbands decide to leave and break down marriage. But for a woman who still loves her husband and wants her marriage to continue, the best way is to explore and identify the causes of their marriage as if they do not meet the expectations. Instead of asking a woman just one question. Why does not my husband like me as in the past? "Ask herself another question:" Do I love and have a situation that will make me deserve to be loved as in the past. "
This question is not easy for a woman to answer. We will provide further questions that will help him to ensure that his marriage is unfamiliar.
• Are its priorities and their marital status correct?
One psychologist once said, A solid marriage is built up by identifying what is originally introduced. The relationship between husband and wife is first or not preceded by anything else.
• Are there social activities that you can share even when you have no husband?
One boss with an unemployed wife complained, saying, "I'm overworking when I'm working until I come home and I'm just trying to relax. But, my wife is staying home at home and hoping to come back and I'll be upset with her out. When I'm tired I think that my love or my love has diminished "to avoid this problem it is best for a woman to make something to do without sparing. He can do such activities as gardening, chicken breeding, baking baskets and other. In addition, he can join groups such as Vicoba, Saccos and mother-in-law development that will enable her to meet with her and to make her feel comfortable. In the evening when they meet her husband at home no one will be tired of loneliness.
• Do you face challenges rather than ignoring or ignoring them?
When two people decide to live together the smaller ones must have to happen. If a woman has a tendency to cover herself without exposure to it and to get rid of it, they can grow as if they were poisonous. Psychiatrists say frivolous and marital differences when dealing with good words strengthen solidarity. One expert told a woman that if you and your husband have never been different until you have a loud noise, it's too dangerous. There is probably a hidden anger that the day will come when you will not be able to resolve it.
• Is the expectation for your husband wise?
There are some women who allow their husbands to give them things or to do things outside their power until it causes them to have a sad life. They also use their husbands in family activities so much to affect their work. All of this can hurt the husband until he is confused and makes him feel like his love for you has diminished.
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